"What happens in the Recovery House?"
"What happens in the Recovery House?", a question everybody asks - but is actually incredibly difficult to answer. There is definitely a process, a journey going on for each guest - but equally I personally feel as though I am on the journey too. Each new guest unearths unanswered questions for myself - this is not just a place for others to do self discovery....
I find as a recovery mentor I am discovering hugely about myself. This enables for true honest discussions to go on. We are constantly told that disclosure is not healthy and should be rationed out very carefully. I have found the opposite, in helping others talk about their truths enables me to talk about mine. This then leads to a real sense of empathy as we work through our similarities and differences. Making myself vulnerable and open - enables our guests to do the same. I find then that I am doing a lot of self reflection and doing my own recovery journey at the same time.
This last 2 weeks has led me to do an early spring clean of clutter and spend a lot of time walking and re-energising. I also went to the doctors with a list of small issues that I had repeatedly brushed off as not important or too embarrassing, I now realise that I could have saved myself months of suffering if I had acted earlier, but isn't this also part of the recovery journey, getting over the embarrassment and shame and doing something about it.
Shame how this one emotion can tie a person in knots, weigh them down, take away their personhood, sense of self. It seems to me to be the cornerstone of mental distress, once knocked out and dealt with, the distress tumbles away. Then you are able to rebuild a stronger self, reinvent yourself, forgive self and others.
So what do we do in the house? Be human, be loving, be honest and cheer as we watch the buds of new growth develop.
'A Life Changing Experience at the Recovery Retreat
To read a personal account of Fi's Experience at the Recovery House
Posted: 13/01/2013 00:44:26 by Global Administrator